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Are you a mover and a shaker? Is your
calendar filled with To-Do lists, meetings, appointments, agendas—all the
pillars of the proverbial “rat race”? Well,
I’m here to tell you from personal experience that busyness is the root of all
stress. Being a hard worker, hustling and grinding for legitimate gain is not a
sin. It’s how businesses, relationships, and families are built. But what
happens when we spend too much time doing “stuff” instead of sitting before the
Lord being quiet and listening for direction from Him? We get stressed out,
resentful, and become murmurers and complainers. As a result, the joy that we
should possess is blocked by our own pursuit of stuff that’s way less important
than hearing from God. Duh...
Remember Martha in Scripture? She and her
sister Mary were hosting Jesus, of all people! In my holy imagination, I see a
house filled with guests. I picture other folk showing up just to be in the
company of the Lord. We can infer from Scripture that Martha was a little bit
frazzled. Girlfriend was probably running around cooking, cleaning, preparing,
hosting, etc... while her sister, Mary, was sitting down chillin’ listening to
Jesus. Can you imagine having company, trying to make sure everything is
perfect and the one person who should be helping
you is sitting down chit-chatting? Most of us would have a fit! And you know
what? Martha did have a fit, Honey! (And
don’t go rollin’ your eyes at Martha, she was human just like us). Martha got
so miffed that she went to Jesus and said, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister
has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” (Luke 10:40, NIV).
Scripture paints a picture of a patient,
loving Father trying to talk some sense into Martha. “Martha, Martha,” the Lord
answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are
needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be
taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41-42). Can’t you just see the lip poke from
Martha? Her standing there looking confused, after just assuming Jesus was going
to come to her rescue and tell Mary to help her, and he doesn’t. Instead, He
gives her exactly what she needs. He does the same thing for us.
The Lord tells Martha that the most
important thing she needs to do at that moment is sitting before Him. You see,
Mary was sitting at Jesus’ feet, hearing His Word. She had to have been quiet to hear Jesus. We can’t hear from
God when we are all over the place with our own little agendas in the forefront
of our minds. Quietness allows us to hear from God. We must learn to remove all
distractions (even cleaning your home or attending to your family can be a distraction).
Pick a time and place that will allow you to sit at Jesus’ feet like Mary.
Once, I was complaining to my pastor about
everything I had going on, telling him how burned out and tired I was from my
day job, my night job, my kingdom commitments and everything else I had going
on in my life. He listened intently and asked, “Did you pray about that?
Because when God calls us to do something, He gives us the strength to do it.”
All I could hear ringing in my ears was: Dun. Dun. Dun! No. I hadn’t prayed
about teaching secular school in the evenings in addition to my ministry work
and day job, or rather I didn’t wait for an answer! I was doing the Martha. I
was doing “stuff.” As a result, I was
stressed out! Since then, I’ve learned the power of “no.” I try to pray and
listen before I take on something new, knowing that the most important thing is
to sit at Jesus’ feet and hear the Word, while I look out the window at the
beauty of God’s creations, being quiet.
Get closer in study:
Matthew 6:6
Psalm 1:2
Psalm 42: 1-2